How Shy Couples Can Enjoy Their Wedding Day Photography: Top Tips from Beautifullight Photography
Hey there, I’m so excited you’re here! If you’re a shy couple looking forward to your wedding day but feeling a bit nervous about being in front of the camera, don’t worry—I can help. At Beautifullight Photography, I believe in creating a relaxed, comfortable wedding photography experience that brings out your true personalities. Here are some easy, stress-free tips to make sure you actually enjoy having your photos taken on one of the most memorable days of your life.
1. Let’s Get to Know Each Other First
Before the big day, I love a quick chat or a pre wedding day photoshoot so we can get acquainted. When I understand your story—how you met, what you love, and even your favourite tunes—I can tailor your photo experience to feel natural and fun. This personal connection also makes you feel more at ease when the wedding day arrives.
If you’re in Berkshire or looking for a Berkshire wedding photographer, let’s grab coffee or jump on a video call. Being comfortable with your photographer goes a long way in helping you relax in front of the camera.
2. Give Your Timeline Some Breathing Room
A jam-packed schedule can make anyone anxious, especially if you’re not a fan of the spotlight. It really won’t help you to enjoy a relaxed photography experience on your wedding day either.
Working together, we’ll plan a realistic timeline—one that includes small breaks and extra buffer time, so you won’t feel rushed. That way, you can focus on savoring the moments & the bubbles & canapés, rather than worrying about what’s next on the agenda.
3. Embrace Your Natural Chemistry & don’t overthink the posing thing !
I won’t ask you to, nor do I want you to feel that you need to perform for the camera. I think that the sweetest wedding photos aren’t the stiffly posed ones; they’re the moments that happen naturally. Think genuine smiles, whispered “I love you’s,” or giggling together at an inside joke. My job is to gently guide you into comfortable positions and then let your natural chemistry shine. The less you worry about the camera lens, the more you’ll look like you in your photos.
Whether it’s a fancy farm venue near Silchester, a Vineyard in Twyford or even a sun soaked mediterranean beach, I’ll include the natural backdrops of your chosen location in thoughtful compositions to frame you & your genuine selves beautifully.
4. Plan a “First Look” or Private Moments
Doing a “first look” before the ceremony can seriously calm those jitters. It’s an intimate moment for you two to connect without all your guests watching—creating some of the most heartfelt photos because you’re totally in the moment with each other. For shy couples this can be one of the most enjoyable times during their wedding day.
Another great idea is exchanging personal vows privately, either during the first look or at another quiet time during your wedding day. Sharing your most meaningful words in a secluded spot adds an extra layer of closeness and allows you to truly focus on each other. Plus, capturing those tearful, emotional & genuine reactions makes for some of the most memorable photos of the day.
If a first look isn’t for you, consider carving out alternative private moments throughout the day—like a short walk together or some time out in a quiet room. These quiet pockets of calm will provide wonderful opportunities for shy couples to create sincere, romantic portraits in a relaxed environment without a large audience.
5. Choose a Photographer Who Clicks with You
This might sound obvious, but it’s essential: find a photographer whose personality and vibes mesh well with yours. It is crucial for those natural & relaxed looking photos that we like each other if we’re going to spend most of your wedding day together ! I specialise in creating relaxed & natural wedding day portraits for even the shyest of wedding couples & always meet my clients in person prior to their wedding day.
At Beautifullight Photography, my goal is to be your cheerleader behind the camera throughout your wedding day.
6. Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
Remember, your wedding day is ultimately about you two celebrating your love. The more you can lock eyes with your partner and soak in the joy of the moment, the less you’ll notice the camera shutter clicking away. I’ll be there in the background, capturing all those genuine interactions that make your day uniquely yours. I promise you, you won’t even notice most of the time.
Providing a relaxed photography experience is my jam. I’ll encourage, guide, and capture the real you—no stuffy posing or forced smiles allowed.
7. Practice a Little Self-Care.
In the days leading up to your wedding, try to get enough rest, drink plenty of water, and maybe even sneak in a light workout or some meditation. Feeling good inside will definitely show on the outside, and your photos will thank you for it.
No one enjoys photos when they’re tired or stressed out so on your wedding day keep it short & sweet for your couples portraits. Split your sessions into 2 or maybe even 3 relaxed & fun mini shoots. That way you’ll also enjoy a varied collection of interesting portraits that you’ll love to look at over & over again !
